Sure.
It's not about you.
It pains us to be reminded of that, but it's true. And it's even more true that those who have goals to accomplish rarely concern themselves with the sensitivities of others. It's been said that politeness is for those without goals, now I wouldn't go that far ... but if one were to drop an anchor in the void, it wouldn't be far off the mark. Yes, recreational counters feel superior to ploppies, and they have a right to. They are aspiring towards rational play (with a little hope thrown in). And they feel rather indignant being compared to the cannon fodder. But that is a perception created by the recreational counter. The dedicated player doesn't care. The more serious you take the game, the more focused your objective becomes. Those that interfere are managed as efficiently as possible. Regardless of who you are, how you define others, and how I should relate to how you define yourself in relation to others.
It's not about you.
It's why I recommend stomping a little for beginner players. It's not because acting like a dick is something to aspire towards. It isn't. But it's a means to an end. It allows you to focus on your objective by minimizing the friction you will face in, and out, of the casino. I know, that sounds counter-intuitive (hah!), but big dicks get breathing room because assholes know they may get fucked.
That Team America thing.
So don't be a pussy. Don't dribble about past hurts and poor treatment. Pussies are pretty accommodating. It's their nature. And don't be an asshole. That's just foul. Be a big dick. Big dicks have a nice look about them. They swing and sway in the wind, cause fear and worship oversees, tend to earn respect even from pussies and assholes alike. And if some dick crosses your path, take it in stride. He has objectives to attain. And maybe, if you are a big enough dick, you won't care.
You'll have objectives of your own.
All the best,
Syph
