Exactly. It wasn't just the large spread that annoyed me, that wouldn't have bugged me by itself, I understand some people are playing to get as much as they can in a very short time.
But combine that with the fact that she was being obvious about what she was doing, in other ways like that, and that makes for an irritating situation. Words like "wonging" and "penetration" should never be used at a blackjack table.
A spread beyond the scope of tolerance for a store is one thing, but completely begging to be backed off, that's something else.